Feminism vs. Just Gittin’ It Done…
Let’s be clear: I am no feminist. I do, however, write stories about strong-willed women who overcome some pretty stout obstacles. Often, my heroines are based on real people.
So, why am I not a feminist? Isn’t modern feminism basically the belief women should be treated the same as men? One dictionary defines it as advocating social, political, legal, and economic rights for women equal to those of men.
Hmmm. Let’s not give that platform a blank check. The FACT is women are different from men and when two things ARE inarguably different, they don’t always need to be treated the same. For example, only women can get pregnant. A woman shouldn’t be allowed to kill a baby growing in her uterus under the guise of women’s rights, or pro-choice or whatever pretty euphemism you’d like to use.
Furthermore, God’s Word draws a distinction between men and women, calling us the weaker vessel. Weaker. Not defective. Physically weaker.
Generally speaking, women didn’t sail the seas to find a new country. Women didn’t hack trails out of the wilderness to see what was over the next hill. Women didn’t trek deep into the heart of the mountains to trap beavers. When gold was discovered in California, women didn’t saddle their horses and ride hell-bent-for-leather to stake a claim.
Feminists would say slow female participation in these events was due to a society that held women back. Everything from unfair property laws to corsets, to educational barriers kept us from tackling great, ground-breaking, destiny-defining adventures. I say phooey. That is a bogus construct.
Women—namely, American women—have always done what they needed to do when they needed to do it. Especially if they really wanted to do it. Our female ancestors lived on the frontier, fought in the Revolutionary War, drove their own wagons west, panned for their own gold, opened their own freight lines, ranched on the edge of Indian Territory, won the right to vote. These endeavors were harder for them. Yet, rather than whine about their circumstances, like their physical limitations and ignorant men, they forged ahead.
And did all this without playing the victim, amplifying their own sense of self-importance (read “selfish” here), or casting off their moral compass, along with their femininity.
I believe the content of a person’s character is the true determining factor in their success. You can’t keep a good woman down and smart men eventually figure that out.
Speaking of strong-willed women, you should check out my book Grace be a Lady. Yep, it’s the tale of a feisty heroine who did what she had to do without selling her soul in the process.
Posted on February 5, 2020, in Grace be a Lady, Ladies in Defiance and tagged #christianfiction, abortion, abortion is murder, anti-abortion, christian fiction, christian romance, early women romance writers, famous american pioneer women, feminism, Fiction of the 1880's, Free fiction, Grace be a Lady, gritty fiction, historical fiction, historical romance, legends of the old west, Old West History, old west legends, pioneer women, prostitutes of the west, right to vote, Romance, romance in the rockies, suffrage, the pioneer women, true romances, true west, unsung heroines of the west, VIctorian fiction, west, western history, western romance, Westerns, wild west history, Wild West Shows, women and guns, women entrepreneurs, women in history, Women living as men, women of the old west, Women of the Wild West, women pioneer, women who settled the west, women who went west, Women who won the west, women's history, women's studies, Wyoming romances. Bookmark the permalink. 12 Comments.
Feminism stopped being about that basic description a long time ago.
It seems their goal is to subjugate men and to have equal opportunities as them.
Yes, initially feminism was tied up with suffrage and temperance. By the 60’s it was clearly clogged with many other things. Thanks for commenting!
Love this!!! So very true!!!
Thank, Trudy. I know my peeps agree!
Very well written Heather. I just read this to my husband and he agrees. God has given you a wonderful talent for writing and letting His word guide you. Thanks for sharing.
I love that you read it to your husband! Glad y’all liked it. Maybe not a popular opinion but the truth, I believe!
I have never been a feminist. When I joined the Army I was in the women’s army Corp. unfortunately a feminist joined our unit and spoiled things for the rest of us. Eventually the Army did away with the WACS and all of a sudden we were soldiers. I finished my enlistment and got out.
That is a shame and a very interesting perspective. Thank you for your service!
Well said and explained. My sisters all 6 of them) are all feminists!
No. way. You need to straighten them out. lol.
I love all of your books! Only wish you had another set for us
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Working on it! LOL. Thank you for reading, Dorothy!